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Industrial Crochet

2012-01-30T11:01:00.000-08:00

I was behind this truck at a stoplight a few weeks ago, and I couldn't resist taking a picture. I know that this is a fairly common way of storing rope, cord, etc., but...

Can you just imagine the size of the hook it would take to make that chain?

I know, I know. I have crochet on the brain.

Watch This! : City Island

2012-01-27T00:09:00.000-08:00

A friend of mine told me, "You've got to see City Island, it's hilarious!"

City Island is funny, and fun to watch. Andy Garcia and Julianna Margulies are the leads in this dramedy about a dysfunctional family living on City Island in New York, which is a real place. There is something going on with each character, that no one else knows about. As you can imagine, it all comes out in the end...

At just 104 minutes, this quirky movie is just right for a school night (but not for school kids!).

Coat Revision

2012-01-25T14:03:00.000-08:00

I bought this coat about six weeks ago, after some debate. It is Old Navy, a pea coat, in fleece. When I first saw it, I thought, "Fleece? That is not as nice as wool." But as a day or two passed, I thought, "Fleece is washable." I went back and bought the coat. Then, thinking the black buttons were a little to contrast-y, a little too eighties, I bought some vintage-y buttons to replace them.

I finally got around to switching buttons today. Andrew, building "moviles" out of Legos all the while, asked me, "Why are you changing the buttons?" Indeed. I replied, "I want these more fancy ones."

Here's the final product, what do you think?

Watch This! : Oscar and Lucinda

2012-01-20T12:19:00.000-08:00

Oscar and Lucinda had been on my list for a long time, over a decade probably. It came out the year after The English Patient which launched Ralph Fiennes into the spotlight. The wonderful Cate Blanchett also stars.

This film is based on a novel, which I now want to read, you know, to get the whole story. Basically, Oscar is an oddball Anglican priest with a gambling problem, and Lucinda is an unlikely heiress with a gambling problem. If you stop there, it may take you over a decade to get around to watching the movie. But there is more to the story. They are not loud raucous gamblers. They are quiet and intense and wow, the performances were great.

You may find that the story turns out a bit oddball, but you will be glad you watched Mr. Fiennes and Ms. Blanchett bring the characters to life.

What have you been watching lately?

Book o' the Month: Wuthering Heights

2012-01-10T13:37:00.000-08:00

Let me start by saying I actually read this book in October. If you are going to read it, you might want to mark your calendar, as it is somewhat of a ghost story.

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte is one of the most intense novels I have ever read. I was expecting a love story as I have always heard of Catherine and Heathcliff as a romantic couple. And I guess it is a love story and they are a romantic couple, but in a very dark way.

There were times when I thought I might just put the book down and walk away. There is violence and cruelty and dread. But I pushed through. And I'm glad I did.

It took a while for it all to sink in. A few days after I had finished reading, I came to the conclusion that the story is very powerful, extremely emotional, and a bit frightening in examining obsession. I was surprised to find myself kind of cheering for Heathcliff, the villain/hero. And I found myself appreciating Cathy's plight from a modern perspective. All the characters were indeed intriguing to me, and I like how Miss Bronte wrapped it all up at the end.

I watched the 2009 film adaptation, and while some things were altered, namely the ending (!), I thought it was well done. Though I must say, the image I had in my head of Heathcliff was edgier. Tom Hardy's portrayal was very good, however, and I'd like to see more of his work. Charlotte Riley's Cathy was excellent as well. And, go figure, the two actors are engaged (as per today's info at IMdB)!

Have you read Wuthering Heights? How did you like it?

P.S. I'm a week late in posting, but joining in with Turn the Page ... Tuesday. Check it out, it's fun!

Apparent Blog Break

2012-01-06T17:48:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year! I am apparently on a blog break. Or else I have been abducted by these two glowing-eyed cat-aliens.

I will be back next week with Book o' the Month. I am also looking forward to my Watch This! series this winter. Let's get started today with Downton Abbey, an excellent Masterpiece Classic on PBS. Season Two starts Sunday and I cannot wait! If you need to get caught up, I think you could easily get through Season One between now and then. It is so good.

Cheers!

Careeening Towards Christmas

2011-12-22T15:26:00.000-08:00

This holiday season is really kicking my butt. Today I realized,while driving into town with the kids on errands yet again, that today is the Winter Solstice. But, here on the west coast, I guess maybe it was yesterday? I'm a little confused. In general.

(Though, after reading this, I see that Winter Solstice is about the longest night of the year. I guess I should have been celebrating the sunrise this morning instead of...)

The sun will set today at 4:48 PM. I thought it might be nice to celebrate by going somewhere to watch it. But the kids don't want to go anywhere, and who could blame them? So, at our house, the sun will have set behind the mountain by the time I post this blog.

But, I will be drinking a cup of tea, and trying to slow down a bit. Before I go completely nuts.

Because there is light. Today is a good day for me to remember that.

(Image is Microsoft Clipart.)

The Kitties

2011-12-16T13:39:00.000-08:00

I'd like to introduce to you, Isabel and Caspian.

These sweet kitties have been with us for just two weeks now. Valerie is completely smitten and loves them with all her heart. Andrew loves them, too, in his own three-year-old way.

Hubby and I have always wanted to get cats, but for years we had never lived in a place where they were allowed, plus we moved around a lot because of school. Then we had kids.

Now, it's a tiny bit like having new kids. I figure our kitties are about five years old in cat years (eight months old). They are kindergartners, basically. They are sister and brother indoor cats and came litter box trained, lovingly raised from three days old by a sweet young woman. When we brought them home, they were hesitant at first, but now they walk around like they own the joint. Cats.

We love them. Sometimes I wonder, "What was I thinking?" while I am scooping out the litter box every other day, or hearing them meow for their food early in the morning, or walking into a room and finding a whole mess of stuff I had haphazardly piled up somewhere (out of Andrew's reach, not too long ago) now scattered across the floor. But I do love them, and their cute soft warm little purring bodies.

Cats.

Book o' the Month: The Curious World of Christmas

2011-12-06T12:45:00.000-08:00

I happened upon this book at the library. I love that about the library. You can browse a shelf of books and you never know what is going to catch your eye!

The Curious World of Christmas: Celebrating All That Is Weird, Wonderful, and Festive, by Niall Edworthy, is a clever book filled with holiday trivia. And if you like your Christmas tidbits on the dry British side, you will probably get a kick out of this book. Chapters include: Farting Dwarves and Peacock Pie, Reindeer Sausages and Minced Coffins, Turkey in the Trenches (this one gets me misty-eyed reading about enemy soldiers taking the day off from shooting at each other in order to celebrate the holiday), Will the Real Father Christmas Please Stand Up?, Turkey Kebobs and Steamed Goldfish.

Though I was raised Catholic, Hubby and I celebrate Christmas in a secular way, (yet I have a soft spot in my heart for the story of Christ's birth and the nativity) and I find myself looking for information about the holiday that makes sense for our family. Books like this one (and this one) give me a lot to contemplate about the origin of traditions. Ultimately, what I find is that Christmas, no matter how you celebrate it, is a time inspiring peace and goodwill, family togetherness, and happy/funny/sweet memory-making.

How do you feel about it?

P.S. Please stop by Turn the Page ... Tuesday today!

P.P.S. Excuse me for not posting last week. We adopted two kitties! More to follow...

Hey, Turkey!

2011-11-22T15:46:00.000-08:00

All I have been thinking lately is that cooking only leads to doing dishes. What I really need to be thinking about is everything I have to be thankful for, like this adorable turkey Andrew brought home from preschool today.

I hope you and yours have a wonderful holiday!

(And thanks for reading my little blog!)

Super Easy Pumpkin Soup

2011-11-17T18:32:00.000-08:00

As you may know, cooking is not one of my favorite pastimes. I think this has a lot to do with the fact that I'm the only one in my family who seems to like the things I cook. So there.

But, we had some pumpkin puree left over from the pie Hubby made on Sunday (we have always used the Fanny Farmer recipe, and lately, Trader Joe's frozen pie crusts, and for the record, before the kids were born, I was the one who made all the pies), and I got it into my head that I would make soup. So I did.

I found this recipe, and modified it. Here's my version:

Super Easy Pumpkin Soup

1 T. butter
1/2 half onion, diced
1 1/2 cups pumpkin puree
3 cups whole milk
sugar, nutmeg, salt, pepper to taste

Cook onions in pan until clear. Add the other ingredients. Stir over medium heat until just boiling. Serve with a dollop of sour cream and french bread.

Was I the only one who liked it, you want to know? Pretty much. The kids ate it as a dip for their bread. Hubby humored me. So, now you know.

Note: Image is Microsoft clipart.

Neglect and Decay

2011-11-10T13:48:00.000-08:00

I am always curious about abandoned places. I want to see inside.

I was recently intrigued by images from Chernobyl and the Mothball Fleet. Searching for more, I found this abandoned resort and also a website for a seriously dedicated photographer. The more I look, the more I find.

I was inspired to take some shots of my own. I'm just itching to know the history of these places and what's on the inside.

Books o' the Month: The Male Brain, Pride and Prejudice, Mansfield Park

2011-11-01T14:12:00.000-07:00

Another must-read book for you, The Male Brain, by Dr. Louann Brizendine. The joke is that it must be more of a pamphlet. But no, there is more to the male brain than guys often get credit for. Hubby had been anxiously waiting for me to finish reading this book. I think I now have a better understanding of what's going on in there. And in there, too.

I've been continuing on my Jane Austen kick. Pride and Prejudice was wonderful. I followed it up with a viewing of the BBC miniseries (keywords: Jennifer Ehl e, Colin Firth) and the more recent film version (keywords: Kiera Knightley, Matthew Macfadyen). There are aspects of both adaptations I liked a lot (but not the last imagined scene from the 2005 movie which, I understand, was only added for American audiences.) I thought Jennifer Ehle's Elizabeth had perfect poise to complement the reserve of Colin Firth's Darcy in the BBC version. I enjoyed Matthew Macfadyen's more emotional portrayal of Darcy, while I was at first unnerved by Kiera Knightley's playful Elizabeth in the 2005 version. Have you seen both versions? Which do you prefer?

I also read Austen's Mansfield Park. It was long and I really enjoyed all the details and finding out how it all turned out in the end. I find that the more Austen I read, the more I realize that people today are just like what they were at the turn of the 19th century. We are such simple yet complex creatures, basically just animals living in a structured society (see The Female Brain and The Male Brain). I watched the 1999 film afterwards, which was interesting, as based upon the novel and Austen's journals, but I found it too different from the book.

The party is at Turn the Page ... Tuesday today--check it out!

Personal Trainer

2011-10-24T11:28:00.000-07:00

Meet Andrew, my personal trainer.

I put on my running shoes, load his bike in the back of the car and we head out. Our path takes us about 2.5 miles. Sometimes he lets me walk, but not for long. Soon he calls out, "I want to go fast!" I have to jog to keep up with him. And his solution for when his legs get tired? Go faster!

I figure this is just training for the day he learns to ride without training wheels.

P.S. Remember this post? Well, it's a good (?) thing I never got around to giving away my old pants. I saw my doctor a few weeks ago and he says he wants to get me "optimized." (I'm still trying to figure out just exactly what that means.) I will see him again in three months with improved results on weight and cholesterol levels. I guess it is time to spend some energy taking care of myself. Three pounds down, only twenty or so left to go. My doc told me he likes the Lose It! app for smartphones, so I downloaded it. The app calculates that if I only eat about 1,200 calories a day, I can get to my goal in May. Ha! But that's not including exercise. I told my doc I would walk briskly an hour a day at least three days a week. (That's two days solo, one with my trainer.) I can't wait to fit into the adorable coat I bought! Oh, and it will be great when my cholesterol level is down, too. I'll let you know my progress in January.

October at the Beach

2011-10-14T10:38:00.000-07:00

We had a beach vacation this past week. It was heavenly, as it always is. But, when you get beautiful weather in October, it is extra special. The light is different than in the summer, and the sunset comes earlier (bedtimes, too). Idyllic.

Simply Ten Good Things

2011-10-05T11:25:00.000-07:00

Inspired by soulemama today, here are my

simply ten good things

Valerie (home from school with a fever today) just handed me a card:

Dear Mama,
Your the best ever mama.
I love you so much.
I want to cuttl you becaus I love you
I will love you forever.

the sound of Andrew chattering while he plays
rain
nowhere we have to be today
autumn
Mansfield Park
homemade Halloween garlands
Pajama Club
visit with Grandma next weekend
housework--who cares?

Books o' the Month: The Female Brain, A Good Year, and The Help

2011-10-04T12:59:00.000-07:00

Have I got a book for you!

I think everybody, female and male, should read The Female Brain. Dr. Louann Brizendine's book is not self-help, it is science. And it will most likely change the way you look at yourself (and everyone you know). I am humbled by my own brain. It is awesomely powerful and insightful. I am also frustrated by my brain. It makes me feel things through a flush of hormones that change day-to-day, entirely beyond my control. The book describes how hormones affect our brains at every stage of life.

Hubby is afraid after reading it. He thinks I might just kick him to the curb after menopause. (Not likely!) And he is anxious for me to read the companion book, The Male Brain. Tune in next month for that one...

I also read Peter Mayle's A Good Year. I remember really enjoying his book (and the film) A Year in Provence. A Good Year was a light read, and I will probably follow it up with the film soon, though the trailer makes it look a bit different from the story--I'll let you know.

And then there was The Help by Kathryn Stockett. I read it like crazy every available minute I had for fours day before going to see the movie (which was very good but as usual, I say, read the book!). This was one of the best recently-written books I have read in a long time. I thought I had already learned a lot about our country during civil rights, but this book, even though a work of fiction, really showed me another perspective. I am so glad I read it.

P.S. Check out Turn the Page ... Tuesday today!

Everything 80s is New Again

2011-09-28T13:51:00.000-07:00

Have you seen this sweater before?

How about these skirts?I could easily have taken these shots (using real camera film, of course) back in the eighties when I was in Junior High and High School.

But I didn't. I took these at a store this morning. That's right, everything eighties is new again. Have you seen the day-glo? The paint splatter? (Not to mention the shades I bought recently.)

Back in the day, I remember asking my mom if she would ever wear bell-bottoms (which were making a comeback) again, like she had as a teen. She said, no, she couldn't do it again.

I can totally relate now. Like, gag me with a spoon.

BTW, can you believe what I just saw in the Victoria's Secret catalog? I didn't even wear those the first time around!

What did you love to wear in the 80s?

The Next Best Thing

2011-09-22T17:57:00.000-07:00

With Andrew in preschool two mornings a week, I have been able to go for walks. By myself! Otherwise known as exercise. And, I tell you, it is the next best thing to going dancing.

I just turn on my Neil Finn Radio using the Pandora app on my phone, and away I go. It's all I can do not to belt out the lyrics as I bop along. It is all I can do not to actually dance on the trail. (Sometimes I just can't help doing a little of either.)

It is so much fun, I look forward to it like nobody's business. About ten minutes into the walk/dance, my body tells me how great it is to be moving by sending some awesome endorphins coursing through my veins. It feels great!

Hooray!

Auntumnal Equinox 2011

2011-09-21T13:18:00.000-07:00

Friday the 23rd is this year's Autumnal Equinox. I am so relieved, I thought I had missed it! (Like I missed last month's cable bill and forgot to renew our AAA membership). These things happen. And time keeps marching on.

My grandma is turning 98 on Friday. So, it is going to be an extra special first day of fall this year. I hope I am fortunate enough to see 98 changes of the seasons. Especially so well cared for by my loved ones, as Grandma is.

Blowing Off the Grocery Shopping, No. 3

2011-09-14T14:43:00.000-07:00

Dear Family,

I just couldn't do it today. I am so sorry. We will have no yogurt or Honey Nut Os for breakfast tomorrow. You will have to make do with jelly toast.

I know it sounds ridiculous, but some days the thought of going into the grocery store is just too much. Not even the promise of a tub of dark chocolate covered almonds could get me in there today. (And that often does the trick.)

I will try to be a better person and go tomorrow. I will try to get the dishes done today. I will make sure your socks and underwear are clean by morning.

Please be gentle with me. I am already feeling terribly guilty and vexed with myself.

Love to you all,
Mama

P.S. I did manage to make a quick stop at the market for a half gallon of milk.

Christmas in September

2011-09-12T10:26:00.000-07:00

This is the scene from one corner of our guest room. I'm thinking, if it is at least six months past the holiday and the decorations are still not put away, I get to just leave them out. I'll be using them soon enough, right?

But that still leaves the Easter baskets on top of the pile. What month is Easter in next year, anyway?

Hot Stuff

2011-09-08T18:29:00.000-07:00

It was 95 degrees yesterday. Pretty hot for where we live, with no A/C. Out the window I saw our backyard squirrel laying on the tile to cool down. Poor little guy!

At Target, this morning, I tried on these retro Ray-Ban-esque style sunglasses. They made me look instantly twenty years younger. Or maybe I was just remembering back to the last time I wore shades like these. I bought 'em.

Book o' the Month: North and South

2011-09-06T13:52:00.000-07:00

No, this has nothing to do with that awesome TV mini-series we all watched in the 80s. But, I did read it after watching this mini-series. I had to see what I might have been missing, by reading the book. I really must stop watching the film versions of novels before I actually read them. (Which is why I refuse to go see The Help before I read the book.)

North and South is by Victorian novelist Elizabeth Gaskell. I would easily say she is on par with Jane Austen and the Bronte sisters. It was so hard to put this book down, I even read a chapter or two in bed at night by the light of my smart phone. I think that Margaret Hale is now one of my favorite heroines in English Literature. (John Thornton, isn't too shabby, either.) I am looking forward to reading (and watching) more of Mrs. Gaskell's works.

So, please read the book first, as it has much more depth than the film version, but then go ahead and watch the mini-series. (And let me know what you think of the ending...)

P.S. Today is Turn the Page ... Tuesday over at Some of a Kind. Take a peek!

Hello, September

2011-09-01T05:00:00.000-07:00

I know fall is on it's way because these leaves growing over a neighbor's fence are turning. Their color is so brilliant, a photo doesn't really do it justice. Whenever I drive by I practically gasp at the display, and I must slow down to about 5 mph to really take it in.

I love fall so much for the golden colors everywhere--I look forward to it every year. (I posted a fall-themed photo each week of the season my first year on the blog.)

Hello, September, and welcome!

Robot

2011-08-31T09:46:00.000-07:00

Valerie, my dear girl. The other day after watching The Backyardigans' Robot Rampage, she asked me for a box to make a robot. I gave her one and went into the kitchen to make dinner. I didn't see her for a while. All was quiet, except Andrew chattering away as he played.

Then, Valerie came into the kitchen and asked if I wanted to see her robot. I had no idea what it was going to be. And I was totally delighted by what she had created (above). Now he is her good friend. She made a bed for him, and likes to dress him up. Oh, and leave him in unexpected places for me to find.

Welcome to the family, Robot.

Thank You, Neighbors

2011-08-30T13:54:00.000-07:00

We are so lucky to have some of the nicest neighbors. Not only are they friendly and kind, but they have done several small favors for us since we moved here over five years ago. (Including helping Hubby trap a lizard that had gotten into the house!)

The photo is of the view out of our guest bedroom window. I love to see the neighbors' tomatoes growing big this time of year and beginning to ripen. Last year, we were given several dozen of these most delicious fruits (which I sliced and ate on toast with cream cheese. Yum.) I hope they have a surplus this year, too.

If you look closely, you'll also see the Sweet peas growing this year. Sweet peas are one of my favorite flowers. What a wonderful surprise it was when I saw their familiar vines starting to grow up the fence! And then the blossoms: pink, lavender, magenta. And then the fragrance: sweet, wafting into the window on a gentle breeze.

Thank you, dear neighbors. Double thanks!

Andrew, Preschooler

2011-08-29T12:42:00.000-07:00

Andrew started preschool last week. He goes two mornings a week. He loves it. The first day, Hubby and I brought him and before we even got to the gate, he turned back, waved and said, "Bye-bye Mommy, bye-bye Daddy!!" I guess he was ready.

I was OK. Then, in the car about half a mile down the road, I had a good cry. Preschool today, college tomorrow. That's how it goes, right?

Last week was all about adjusting to this new routine. It threw me for a loop. (I didn't even get to my blog posts.) I went to farmer's market by myself and it was so easy, but it also felt a little empty without all thirty-five pounds of Andrew on my hip. I have been looking forward to having some regular time to myself-- you know, for grocery shopping, classroom volunteering, doctor appointments, car maintenance, oh, and exercise--for so long, yet feeling quite conflicted about it, as well, because it means my little ones aren't so little any more.

I can imagine, years from now, decades even, looking at Andrew's first preschool artwork (above), and remembering.

Days and Years

2011-08-19T18:08:00.000-07:00

The other day a friend told me, "The days are long, the years are short."

Andrew went to his preschool orientation today. He had a blast! (I don't know if I can take it.)

Painting En Plein Air

2011-08-16T13:57:00.000-07:00

Andrew loves to paint. He found some brushes over the weekend and has been asking me to paint every day since, multiple times per day. So we go out on the driveway with the watercolors, etc. and paint en plein air.

It is utterly delightful. He draws a lot of portraits. Big round heads with big round eyes, straight line mouths, arms and legs extending from where the ears and neck would be. And he tells a story with each one as he paints. It doesn't get much better.

I love to paint, too. Twenty years ago, I studied painting at university. I lived and breathed it. Just brushing paint onto a surface stirs something within me.

Valerie is already a confident artist, now Andrew is taking an interest.

I couldn't be happier. Except, of course, if I had my own studio and time (plus energy) to paint every day. For now, passing on my knowledge will have to do. Such is the art of motherhood.

Where Has the Summer Gone?

2011-08-12T10:38:00.000-07:00

With Valerie's return to school this week, our ten weeks of summer break came abruptly to an end. We took it slow, but still it went by too fast.

Mostly I will remember the kids filling their days with play and projects of their own design, late afternoons riding bikes on our quiet street, vacationing at the beach, and visits with great grandma.

It was a good summer.

Second Grade Dress

2011-08-11T13:13:00.000-07:00

OK, it's not a dress. It's a tunic and capri pants, plus kerchief. Valerie selected the pattern and the fabrics. And I stayed up 'til 2am Wednesday morning sewing it (thus, my days-late posting). Wednesday was her first day of second grade. Note to self: start earlier next year.

At any rate, it turned out adorable and she looked adorable wearing it! The tradition of first-day-of-school dresses continues...(kindergarten, first grade).

Valerie had a great day, even though the first thing she said to me on the way home was, "I don't want to go to school. I want to stay home with you, Mama." Then she went on to tell me numerous happy good things about her day.

Well, Valerie, my love, I wish you could just stay home with me, too. Forever.

Go Clean Your Room

2011-08-04T12:12:00.000-07:00

I can tell already that this is going to be a "GO CLEAN YOUR ROOM" kind of day.

All...day...long.

Meanwhile, I'll be attempting to sort, fold, and put away the above mountain of clean laundry. (As I'm not the kind of gal to show you my dirty laundry.)

Book o' the Month: The Secret Lives of Dresses

2011-08-02T05:00:00.000-07:00

I have been reading Erin McKean's blog A Dress A Day since I started reading blogs, about two and a half years ago. If you enjoy sewing and love vintage, you should definitely stop by.

And...if you enjoy sewing and love vintage, you should definitely read her book, The Secret Lives Of Dresses. I picked it up while on vacation, and could hardly wait to get back to it each night when the kids got to sleep.

It makes me want to go shopping at a vintage boutique the next time I need something special. Or attempt to sew something from an old pattern. Or wear one of my Grandma's hats. Or...the list goes on!

Check out Turn the Page ... Tuesday over at Some of a Kind today!

Mommies Don't Get Sick Days

2011-07-30T12:50:00.000-07:00

No sick days. It just isn't in the contract. So, I have to rely on my little buddy Kipper. This time, I'm the one feeling under-the-weather. I just hate summer colds!

(Above, the view from my bedroom window. Sometimes I can manage to stay in there for as long as ten minutes, or just barely long enough to feel drowsy, before the kids need my attention.)

Book o' the Month: Sense and Sensibility

2011-07-27T14:32:00.000-07:00

I hadn't read Jane Austin since high school, so I thoroughly enjoyed reading Sense and Sensibility this month knowing I would not be required to write a critical essay when finished.

Oh, Jane! I have seen a number of films and mini-series (most recently this one) based upon her novels. There is so much to love. Her writing is, of course, wonderful, and even though there were several sentences I had to reread, there was only one paragraph that totally perplexed me because of the language.

I bought this book of her novels for myself as a birthday gift. I like having all the novels in one place, plus it takes up less space on the bookshelf. As if there were any space left there to begin with. Or on the floor anywhere near it, for that matter.

Tonight, I will be watching the Emma Thompson/Kate Winslet version of the movie. I hope Hubby will watch with me. He's been a bit more into trying out period films since getting completely absorbed with Downton Abby. But that's another post.

Cow Costume

2011-07-21T11:30:00.000-07:00

Valerie is in a play at summer camp this week, which called for a cow costume. We took her cat costume (from Halloween two years ago) out of the dress-up basket for this one. It was still long enough in the body to fit, though the arms and legs are quite short!

Valerie cut out and arranged the white felt spots. She sewed on the ones that were close to the various edges. I finished up the rest. She also made a darling set of cow ears and horns out of a headband, pipe cleaners, construction paper and tape. I tell you, the girl is a wiz!

I wonder if she will now be inspired to "go cow"!?

Where it All Began

2011-07-19T14:51:00.000-07:00

While on vacation a few weeks ago, I visited my hometown library. This is the particular row I would go to in the summer as a young teen looking for the thickest books I could find. This I where I discovered Hemingway's Islands in the Stream and The Sun Also Rises. I always loved reading, but this is also where I discovered that reading can be an adventure.

I wished I had brought my old library card (do you think they'd still let me use it?) when my interest was piqued by Margaret Drabble's The Sea Lady and Iris Murdoch's The Sea, The Sea. (I was a bit inspired by the beach, you see.)

I just found out today that our local Borders is closing in September. I know it is a big box book store, but I liked it. I will miss it. (And I'd better check on the status of my Borders Bucks!) Even though I prefer to borrow books from our local library rather than buy them, I do occasionally buy a book I can't find at the library, or one I think I would like to have on my bookshelf at home. I also like to give books as gifts.

Well, our local independent booksellers are sure to be rejoicing. And I will be getting to know more of them. (And trying to convince them to open coffee bars in their stores.)

Going "Cat"

2011-07-13T11:22:00.000-07:00

"Mama," Valerie announced as she tossed black leggings and a black shirt onto my bed, "I'm going cat today. Can you help me find my headband?"

Indeed.

What could be better? Seven years old and deciding to dress as a cat for a day out riding the trolley and visiting the natural history museum. It seemed so normal, I had to remind myself why passersby might be smiling at us a little more than usual.

Missing the Beach

2011-07-12T16:20:00.000-07:00

I'm back from my blog break. Back from a little summer beach vacation, too. Oh, it was so very extremely hard to leave.

In lieu of a photo today, please enjoy my new masthead (or if you are looking at a later month, see my Masthead Archive). I took the shot with the panorama setting on my camera. It is the beach I have been going since I was, well, born. And I miss it so.

Are you pining for a particular vacation destination today?

Summer Solstice

2011-06-21T15:50:00.000-07:00

Happy Summer Solstice to you all! I don't know about you, but summer is in full swing all of a sudden around here. I find myself going a couple of days at a time without even turning on the computer. So, I'm taking the hint and going on a summer break from blogging.

I doubt I'll be back for the Fourth of July, so I'm celebrating early here with the darling graphic below from vintageholidaycrafts.com. When I was three or four, my aunt dressed me up as Betsy Ross and pulled me in a wagon in a parade. It was so much fun!Be back in a while....Enjoy!

Two Years on the Blog

2011-06-16T15:43:00.000-07:00

I started writing this blog two years ago this month. It's nice to have a place to express myself: storytelling, dreaming, complaining, celebrating, creating.

Thanks for coming along for the ride! (And a special note of appreciation for those of you dear regular readers!!)

And today I give you two photos I took of... airport chairs...

I find them aesthetically pleasing, for some reason.

No, I didn't fly anywhere. If I could get on a plane tomorrow and go anywhere I've never been, I'd fly to New Zealand. Though, I believe it is winter there now, so instead I'd go to Ireland.

How about you?

Seeing Spots

2011-06-15T12:29:00.000-07:00

I like red polka dots. So cheery!

But not decorating Andrew's little hands, feet, and mouth (and scattered about the rest of his body, as well) . Poor baby.

Hand, Foot, and Mouth Disease. A fairly common and mild childhood virus. Here just in time for summer.

*UPDATE July 21, 2011* I have noticed a lot of traffic to this post--I think there must be a lot of kids out there getting the virus this summer. About two weeks after I first noticed the spots, they had pretty much cleared up. Then he lost a toenail. And just yesterday I noticed another toenail and two fingernails are about ready to fall off (which is possibly related to the virus, as you can read at the CDC link above). Our pediatrician assures me he will be just fine. PLEASE put in a call to your doctor if you have any concerns about your child's health!

Today's Good Things

2011-06-10T16:36:00.000-07:00

Today we wrap up our first week of summer break. I am loving not having to get anywhere on time.

Here are some other good things from today:

Valerie's one-girl dance party at Trader Joe's
one TJ's trip with two kids down, only nine to go!
first prizes earned from the library's summer reading program (photo above)
a few precious minutes worth of happy chat on the phone with my grandma
watering Girl Scout planted geraniums at the community center
finally, an incentive (TJ's Chocolate Ice Cream Bon Bons) that works to get Andrew to use the potty (so far...maybe)
good-bye to the TV box that has been a fun toy (and huge eyesore) in the living room since November
Valerie and Andrew riding bikes!!

I hope your day was filled with good things, too!

Book o' the Month: Out of Africa

2011-06-07T17:57:00.000-07:00

I loved the movie and for many years have wanted to read the book, an autobiographical account of Karen Blixen's time in Africa. Out of Africa, by (pseudonym) Isak Dinesen is completely enchanting and captivating. I love the writing style. I love Baroness Blixen's strong personality. If you like the movie (as much as I do), you will certainly enjoy the book!

I'm hanging out with Turn the Page ... Tuesday over at Some of a Kind today--have a look!

Life is Sweet

2011-06-02T10:35:00.000-07:00

This Natalie Merchant song has been playing in my head for the last few days. Not the whole thing, really, just this last part:

"They told you life is hard
It's misery from the start
It's dull and slow and painful

I tell you life is sweet
In spite of the misery
There's so much more
Be grateful

Who do you believe?
Who will you listen to
Who will it be?

It's high time you decide
It's time you make up your own sweet little mind

They told you life is long
Be thankful when it's done
Don't ask for more
You should be grateful

But I tell you life is short
Be thankful because before you know
It will be over

Cause life is sweet
And life is also very short
Your life is sweet"

Life is sweet. This morning when I took the photo of the (most perfect shade of) red roses we have in the yard, next to the cherry tree, I knew I had to write about it here. Just a little.

Vacation Countdown

2011-05-31T17:02:00.000-07:00

This is Valerie's last week of school. Today she came home with no homework and she needed something to do.

So, I had her make a countdown 'til our summer vacation. She wrote a number for each day on a separate small piece of paper (recycled from an old desk calendar), then decorated them with stickers. I'll hole punch each in the corner and connect them with a circle of yarn. Then she can pull off a paper each day until we go on vacation. (I can't wait!)

Firefly

2011-05-28T14:18:00.000-07:00

Do you like a little Western with your Sci Fi? I didn't think I would, either. But then I gave Firefly (created by Joss Whedon) a chance. Maybe you caught it the first time around back in 2002. Or maybe, like Hubby and I, you collapse onto the couch at night after the kids are finally asleep and happen upon a rerun of an old show you completely missed and get hooked.

We soon realized we had to stop casually watching odd episodes and just start from the beginning with Netflix streaming. There are only 14 episodes, since the series was cancelled after one season. But that doesn't mean it isn't good. Probably just didn't catch on with a more general audience. And as you know, if you've been reading my blog for a while, my tastes in film and TV are a bit quirky.

Firefly. Every character on the crew of the spaceship Serenity is engaging, from Captain Malcolm ("Mal") Reynolds (played by Nathan Fillion), to unfortunate genius/psychotic River Tam. The series is set five hundred years in the future when humans have moved on to another galaxy of terraformed planets. Some live in an abundance of technology, while others, "not so much".

I like the pseudo western/futuristic wardrobe (it is good, not at all over-the-top) and the fact that there are no lame aliens (no aliens at all, actually). Also, the mix of Chinese language and aesthetic that permeates this vision of the future.

After Firefly was cancelled, a full-length film, Serenity, was made as a continuation. All the same actors and characters are in it, yet playing their roles with more edge. And the story is darker, less light-hearted than the TV shows. Personally, I'm glad I watched the movie, but I prefer to remember the characters pre-Serenity. In my own little universe.

(Note: Sorry for the late posting. I couldn't log in to Blogger for a couple days.)

Thanks, Coach

2011-05-24T00:24:00.000-07:00

I played four seasons of softball in high school. I use the term "played" loosely.

My dad is a baseball lover. He even played in an "old guys" league well into his 60s. He inspired me to play, too. He and my mom would come to all my games (sadly, some of the few parents who did), and join me in cheering on the team. From the bench.

You see, I was not terribly focused on the game. I was more interested in other extracurricular activities. I spent more energy on boys than learning how to throw like them. I never learned to not throw like a girl, except for the season I took up throwing sidearm. It seemed better at first, then I paid for it with elbow pain.

But I liked being on the team. I liked riding the school bus to away games. It felt good on the days I helped rather that hindered the team. I was pretty good at fielding, though the nervous throw that followed was usually wild. I even liked wearing the polyester uniforms. And oddly enough, I played my best at second base during sophomore year when I was issued uniform number thirteen.

In my senior year, my sister started high school and joined me on the field. My parents would come to see our games which played simultaneously. But they would hang out mostly at the J.V. field, my dad glancing occasionally through binoculars up at the Varsity field in case I got in the game. And who could blame him? I was a first string bench warmer while my sister was a kick-butt catcher who could bullet the ball to anywhere in full gear and on one knee from behind home plate.

Since high school, I have mostly shied away from opportunities to play softball. Until recently. There is a neighborhood friend Valerie's age who plays. Her dad coaches her team. So, we set up the bases on our (quiet) street and the girls wail on the ball and I get to field again. And pretend to know what I'm doing.

What's surprising to me is that my reflexes are still pretty good. And it is fun. Maybe since I have no one to let down, I'm not so nervous.

It turns out, I did learn a lot all that time on the field. Little did I know my most important use of the fundamental skills of softball would come to me twenty plus years later, playing ball in the street with my kids.

Thanks, Coach.

(Photo: Andrew tries out Mama's old glove.)

Lego M

2011-05-20T11:56:00.000-07:00

A belated Mother's Day gift (misplaced in an abysmally messy room) from Valerie. I love it!

What else might we find if we dig a little deeper, I wonder?

Drizzle

2011-05-17T10:01:00.000-07:00

I just love days like today. Wet. Rain, fog, drizzle--I'll take it. Ever since I was a girl, the idea of sitting in a cozy chair by the window with a book/crochet/embroidery project and a cup of hot coffee/tea/cocoa on a wet day has been just bliss. Actually, bliss is when I get to do just that.

I think I'll give it a go today. (We'll see how long Andrew goes along with that plan!)

We have the most beautiful Joseph's Coat roses that grow at the corner of our yard. They change color from bud to blown. Today they are covered with water droplets. Exquisite.

A few things...

2011-05-13T11:45:00.000-07:00

...keeping me sane today (kind of):

large half-caf mocha
Old Navy Sweetheart Jeans
Shaun the Sheep on Netflix

What's keeping you sane today?

P.S. Did you spot the ladybug on the apple tree branch? Little things like that help me stay sane, too!

The Birthday Dress - 2011

2011-05-10T12:25:00.000-07:00

Seven Years by Norah Jones.

Spinning, laughing, dancing to
her favorite song
A little girl with nothing wrong
Is all alone

Eyes wide open
Always hoping for the sun
And she'll sing her song to anyone
that comes along

Fragile as a leaf in autumn
Just fallin' to the ground
Without a sound

Crooked little smile on her face
Tells a tale of grace
That's all her own

This song used to make me feel a little sad. But now that Valerie is seven, I get it. It is a beautiful song to me now. It is Valerie.

And this is her birthday dress.

She love, love, loves dragons. When I found the dragon fabric I thought it might be a little scary. Not at all. It was exactly what she had in mind. And she wanted another "vest dress." Complete with the black industrial strength zipper.

I love, love, love that that Valerie is her very own seven-year-old person.

Walking on the Wocks

2011-05-05T09:47:00.000-07:00

Each day we take Valerie to school, we pass a little border of rocks, about eight feet in length, along the path from the parking lot to the playground. Sometimes we travel past at a nice pace, sometimes at a near run, depending how smoothly the morning routine has gone.

Each morning I head back to the car carrying Andrew (at thirty-three pounds, he still prefers "uppie" and I oblige because it won't be long before he'll really be too big for "uppie," or-sniff, sniff--not want me to carry him anymore). But as we get to the rocks he always says, "Walk on da wocks!"

Some days, this is just fine. I hold his hand and help him maneuver the border until we get to a big flat one at the end where he always promptly sits down and says, "What shall we do?!"

Other days, usually depending on how smoothly the morning routine has gone, I'm not in the mood for anything but getting back to the car.

But lately, I've found myself asking if he'd like to walk on the rocks as we approach them. Because I realize it won't be long before he'll be too big for "walking on da wocks."

Happy Mother's Day this Sunday!

Book(s) o' the Month(s): The Birth of Venus and The Rent Tent

2011-05-03T10:27:00.000-07:00

I recently read two works of historical fiction, both New York Times Bestsellers, The Birth of Venus by Sarah Dunant and The Red Tent by Anita Diamant. I would recommend both books--just click on the links above to go to the authors' pages for plot summaries.

The Birth of Venus takes place in 15th century Florence, Italy. As an artist, I enjoyed reading about artists and imaging that world. It was a bit like being back in art history class. And it was a real page-turner.

The Red Tent takes place in biblical times and is the imagined story of Dinah. I was captivated by the reverence for the strong women characters as child bearers, mothers, caretakers, matriarchs, etc., etc. And ever since reading this book, I seriously wish I had a rent tent to go to once a month.

I blasted through each of these books as fast as a mama can, stealing minutes at a time, and staying up much too late at night reading. While each story was indeed engrossing and entertaining, I longed for more intricate prose. However, I realize that writing in the style of either time period would be a challenge for both author and reader. (Have you ever read Chaucer's The Canterbury Tales?)

I think I'll stick with 19th through mid-20th century lit for a while--it's back to contemporary historical fiction (does that make any sense at all??) for me!

(I'm joining in with Turn the Page ... Tuesday today over at Some of a Kind!)

Enchanted April in Paris

2011-04-28T10:34:00.000-07:00

April, I like you a lot all of a sudden. For a while, I didn't get along very well with Spring. but this year, something has changed. (It might just be the fact that Andrew rarely eats dirt anymore, so it is less stressful to be out in the yard with him.) Lots of things have been feeling out of whack lately, but Spring feels just right.

I got to visit with my grandma (who is 97, beautiful and cheerful, but mostly stays in bed now) over the break, and that always helps put things in perspective for me. She is looking out at Spring for the 98th time this year. Just being near her, making her a cup of coffee, feels like an honor. I showed her a photo I'd just taken (using my smart phone) and she laughed that she didn't even recognize herself. Brought me to tears, of course. Hugs and I love yous.

So....last night I was having my once-every-month headache and didn't want to read, as I had been looking forward to doing all day when the kids finally got to sleep, so I flipped through the free movies On Demand and came across April in Paris. Bingo! This 1952 film stars the darling Doris Day, whom my grandma was often mistaken for back in the day. For me, just the right movie, at just the right time.

Ray Bolger (also known for his role as The Scarecrow in The Wizard of Oz--I thought he looked, danced, and sang familiar) and Claude Dauphin (I am smitten) also star. It is everything you would expect from a 1950s comedy/musical/romance. It is now on my list to watch every April. Andrew will be joining me, too, I think. He who uttered, "I don't like dis," as he could barely peel his eyes off the screen for the last 15 minutes of the movie that I had to finish watching this morning because he woke up last night and needed his mama before the movie was over. Really, who can take their eyes off Ms. Day singing and dancing? (Andrew is smitten.)

The other movie on my list each year this month? Enchanted April. More perspective, beauty, and cheer, if you are in need or simply in the mood.

So, April. We get to hang out for just a couple more days. I've been happy to see you. Thanks for visiting with me. And please, be sure and visit Grandma again next year.

(Image is Microsoft Clipart. I wish I had been to Paris this month to snap it!)

Thoughts on this Glorious Spring Day

2011-04-26T12:49:00.000-07:00

I'm back from my break--thanks for stopping by!

Days like this bring just one word to mind: glorious.

Here are my thoughts...

This year I feel very happy spring is here
Only 5 1/2 more weeks 'til Valerie is on summer break!
Dark chocolate covered almonds are an appropriate snack food, right?
The kids sure got a lot of candy this Easter
Only 5 1/2 more weeks of packing Valerie's lunch for school!
The flowers in the yard are blooming like crazy
My beautiful grandma is seeing her 98th spring this year
Only 5 1/2 more weeks of getting Valerie to school on time!
Andrew's latest joke...Me: (seriously) Do you have a stuffed nose? Andrew: (pause) I have a stuffed giraffe!

What are your thoughts today?

Spring Break

2011-03-22T12:26:00.000-07:00

3-22-11

This seems to be a pretty auspicious date, wouldn't you agree?

I'm going to take a spring break from blogging.

Be back in a while...

Watch This! : Ondine

2011-03-17T05:00:00.000-07:00

In honor of St. Patrick's Day, I've got an Irish film to tell you about: Ondine.

This dream-like movie completely captivated me. I like the way the plot is summarized here. This is the first film I have seen with Colin Farrell (besides a few minutes of Phone Booth), whom I have always thought of as mostly doing action roles. I thought his performance was very good. Alicja Bachleda was mysterious and ethereal. Stephen Rea was perfect as the priest. And young Allison Barry was wonderfully wise beyond her years.

With so much Irish blood running through my veins, I was easily enticed by the scenery. And get this: Ondine was filmed in County Cork, where some of my ancestors are from. I simply must go there someday.

Other Irish films you might enjoy: Leap Year, Waking Ned Devine. And here's a list of films set in Ireland.

Happy St. Paddy's and don't drink too much green beer!

P.S. Today's was the last installment of this year's winter movie suggestions, Watch This! Hope you enjoyed my quirky picks.

Little House Afghan

2011-03-15T13:19:00.000-07:00

My grandma (who is ninety-seven!) gave this little afghan to me at our last visit. I came across it in her room, and was immediately flooded with memories and warm cozy feelings.

When my grandparents would babysit my sister and I while my parents were out on a dinner date, my grandpa would go to bed early, while us girls would head out to the Little House. It was a small structure, just one room plus a kitchen and bathroom, originally built for my Great-Grandma (Grandpa's mother) to live in when she got old. But she would have none of that, which was just fine with my grandma. So, the Little House was where Grandma had her sewing machine, and lovely antiques, and an old TV.

We would walk in the dark from the main house (why we didn't turn on the back porch light, I don't know) to the Little House. My sister and I would play 'till it got late, then cuddle up on the couch under this little afghan while Grandma watched Merv Griffin. And we'd inevitably fall asleep until my parents arrived to take us home.

When Grandma gave me this afghan a few weeks ago, she couldn't remember who had made it for her. We have a couple of guesses, but I will ask her again on another day.

I feel so lucky to have this tangible reminder of such cozy memories. (And I am tempted to crawl under it with my own kids, with all the troubling news coming in the wake of the recent earthquake in Japan.)

Watch This! : Secrets and Lies

2011-03-10T10:06:00.000-08:00

Secrets and Lies is such a good movie. This 1996 British film got lots of nominations and won many awards. IMDb sums it up very succinctly, "Successful black woman traces her birth mother to a lower-class white woman, who denies it; emotions run high as everyone's secrets are exposed."

I went to see this movie based on the interesting title and the fact that it was foreign. I saw it by myself at the neatest little independent cinema. I hope you have one in your area, because they are just the best. And you can often see the best films there. Not necessarily the blockbusters, but definitely ones that will be nominated for prestigious awards.

Case in point: Today I was going to post about Love and Other Drugs (Gyllenhaal/Hathaway eye candy is all you need to know--which is is great when you are in the mood for just that), which I saw at a mainstream movie theater. But I got to thinking and came up with Secrets and Lies which is excellent.

Stepping down off my soapbox now.

Art Wings

2011-03-08T12:26:00.000-08:00

When I was a senior in high school I spent first and fifth periods everyday working on getting my pieces ready for the AP Art exam. I opened up my old AP Art portfolio this morning, looking for a watercolor to show to Valerie. It was there--two angels, one comforting the other sitting on a leaf among flowers.

Most of the images in the portfolio are of flying, floating, or winged figures. There is a definite theme to the work. Clearly, I desired to spread my wings, to fly. I was looking ahead to going off to university to study art. And to become me.

{I am quite pleased to find that I still have a strong connection to some of the pieces, including the one above. And I love that this image I made at seventeen can bring up even more meanings for me today. I think I'll frame it.}

Initially, I was in an art education program designed to prepare me to be a high school art teacher. After two years in "the city" (or "the armpit"), away from my family, I transferred to another university closer to home, where I flourished and graduated with a BA in Art Studio. I went on to earn a teaching credential after I discovered my love of speaking Spanish, and found out that I liked working with young children. I was a teacher for 8 years.

Then Valerie was born. I was ready for a change--little did I know that would mean becoming a stay at home mom. Then Andrew came along. Motherhood was all-encompassing (and often overwhelming); art had been on the back burner for so long. But suddenly, as I looked ahead, I could imagine a time when I would be able to do...

Well, several things: catch my breath, clean out the den, get back to a career, contribute financially to the family. And maybe, just maybe, use my art degree. So, with just a couple more years 'til Andrew is in kindergarten, I'm starting to dream, even plan a little bit.

I can feel my art wings fluttering.

P.S. As always, many thanks to Ms. T., my high school art teacher who has always been an inspiration to me.

Watch This! : Hideous Kinky

2011-03-03T17:38:00.000-08:00

Don't be alarmed. This movie is neither hideous nor kinky. ("Hideous kinky" is a silly phrase from the movie.) It features the wonderful Kate Winslet, my favorite actress. You might remember her from her breakout role in a little film called Titanic.

Hideous Kinky follows a young mother on her path of self-discovery in Morocco. The story is enticing, the film is a visual feast.

I would recommend every single one of Winslet's films I have seen, sixteen in all!

And as I browse her filmography on IMDb, I see there are a number I need to put in the Netflix queue. It's not a coincidence that all the ones I haven't seen yet came out 2004 or later. I guess that's when I, ahem, stopped having much free time for watching movies.

Book o' the Month: Operating Instructions

2011-03-01T14:07:00.000-08:00

This month's title is Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year by Anne Lamott. This book easily fits into in my Mommy Lit section (which I first introduced with the wonderful Catherine Newman, because of whom I heard about this book!). Reading it took me back to the early new baby days, especially after Valerie was born. I found so many passages I could relate to, I was taking notes like it was a college textbook.

Here are a few:

"...but one of the worst things about being a parent, for me, is the self-discovery, the being face-to-face with one's secret insanity and brokenness and rage."
[while the baby is napping] "I start to think about the millions of things I could do around the house or at my desk that could really make a difference in the quality of our life, and then I usually end up thinking, Gee, that sounds like a lot of work for a woman who hasn't brushed her teeth in three days."
"...one thing about having a baby, is that each step of the way you simply cannot imagine loving him any more than you already do, because you are bursting with love, loving as much as you are humanly capable of--and then you do, you love him even more."

If you can relate, you must read this book! Then, call up a friend or acquaintance with a new baby at home and offer to help however you can. I think it is so important for mothers to remember the early days, and to be there for other mamas.

P.S. Today I'm joining in the fun with Turn The Page Tuesday over at Some of a Kind. Take a peek!

Watch This! : Edward Burns

2011-02-24T05:00:00.000-08:00

Okay, okay, Edward Burns is not a movie. He is an actor/writer/director. Kind of his own genre, in my opinion. (If you aren't familiar with his writing and directing, you may remember him as an actor in Saving Private Ryan.)

I watched his latest, Nice Guy Johnny, last weekend. It is short and sweet, with interesting characters. What I really like about Burns' films is the dialogue. And the New York/Irish Catholic sensibility. Plus, he is just so darn handsome.

Here some more EB movies I've seen and would recommend: The Brothers McMullen, She's the One, Sidewalks of New York. (Apparently, I've missed a bunch, so queuing those up on Netflix now...)

Pants Fix

2011-02-22T05:00:00.000-08:00

I recently decided I'd better fix up the pants with the too-big waistband for Andrew before he outgrows the length. (The ones I bought, thinking ahead, on sale two years ago.) What followed was a search for the yard of special elastic with buttonholes, I bought over six months ago and misplaced (can you imagine?). I almost had to give up and go to the fabric store for more. But I found it.

I was inspired by the adjustable waist pants you can buy for toddlers and bigger kids. Whoever came up with this idea was a genius. I was thrilled to find the elastic to be able to do it myself.

Nothing fancy. The pants already had a casing with elastic at the waist. I just made two slits in the casing near the back (on the inside), and two on the sides, closer to the front. I pulled the new elastic (one piece on each side) through and sewed the ends to secure it. Then, I attached buttons just in front of the side slits and secured the adjustable elastic that way.

Now I can make the waistband just the right size. It works like a charm!

Watch This! : Bright Star

2011-02-17T11:08:00.000-08:00

Bright Star is a film about poet John Keats and his love Fanny Brawne. If you are a fan of director Jane Campion, you will know what you are getting into. It is a romantic period movie, which is the most delicious eye candy for some us!

Some of my favorite scenes were the ones with Fanny sewing. I often imagine, had I lived at that time, with those same circumstances, I would have spent my days sewing, as well. I enjoyed her strong character, and learning about her relationship with Keats. Bright Star is a sweet, if somewhat unfulfilled love story.

Watching this film might just make you want to revisit "Ode on a Grecian Urn". Ever since I first read it in high school, the lines

"Beauty is truth, truth beauty," – that is all

Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know.

have always stayed with me. Keats is another artist who was lost too soon.

Lie to Me

2011-02-16T12:04:00.000-08:00

Have you seen this show, Lie to Me?

Hubby and I have been staying up way too late (like just past 11pm, gasp!) watching past episodes on Netflix streaming.

Cal Lightman, the main character is a behavioral scientist who can tell if someone is lying (and more) by watching closely their facial expressions. He and his group solve all kinds of mysteries this way.

The gradual revealing of the characters' back stories is intriguing and keeps our eyes glued to the screen until the very last seconds of each episode.

This show has got Hubby and I addicted. And tired.

Which TV series would recommend?

Watch This! : Leap Year

2011-02-10T12:42:00.000-08:00

Here's a fun movie for your Valentine's Day weekend (and fun for the month of February even if it's not currently a): Leap Year.

A good friend invited me over one night last year to watch a movie. We found this one On Demand, poured glasses of red wine, grabbed a few Lindt Lindor Truffles and settled in on the comfy couch, knowing it would be a challenge to stay awake for the duration of a movie starting after 9:30 p.m. But we gave it a go, and it turned out to be really cute flick.

Leap Year was the first movie I ever saw on a TV in HD. It took some getting used to, being able to watch strands of hair blow across Amy Adams' lovely face, or see some serious twinkle in Matthew Goode's charming Irish eyes (though he's actually from England). This is a serious chick flick with romantic tension that will knock your socks off. And for me, the allure of Ireland made it all that more enchanting.

Other recommendations for this upcoming weekend of love:
Chocolat, Breakfast at Tiffany's, A Room With a View, 50 First Dates.

What's your favorite love story on film?

The Birthday Pants - 2011

2011-02-09T10:44:00.000-08:00

"Rocket Pants!" is what Andrew calls them. He recently turned three. I don't quite know how that is possible.

He has been into rockets, space shuttles, astronauts, etc. So he got these pants to wear for his birthday. I used Simplicity 8493. I love the pants pattern--just one piece. No side seams. SO quick. I was finished in an hour from cutting out the pattern, to asking Andrew to run down the hall to see how fast his rocket pants could go. (Quite fast!)

Now if only he wouldn't grow up so fast.

Watch This! : Away We Go

2011-02-03T10:36:00.000-08:00

Getting ready for Valentine's Day...

I simply loved Away We Go with John Krasinski and Maya Rudolph. This was such a good quirky story of love and acceptance. It struck a chord with me (and Hubby, too) on so many levels.

I like both actors so much and the performances were funny, honest, well done. A wonderful movie about finding "home."

Book o' the Month: My Life

2011-02-01T12:57:00.000-08:00

My Life, the autobiography by artist Marc Chagall, captivated me, much like his paintings do. He is one of my favorite artists and his painting, The Birthday, is one of the most wonderful of all.

I happened upon this book during story time at the library with Andrew as one of the librarians was re-shelving it. It is so beautifully written. And I found myself relating to many of the feelings Chagall describes experiencing as a child and young man. I have always been drawn to his artwork, even though I have nearly nothing in common with him. But after reading his words, it is perhaps a little clearer to me. Not only am I left with more of an understanding of Chagall, but also an appreciation for what it was like to be a painter during the time in which he lived.

I would recommend this book simply for the beauty of the writing. But also, I would hope it turns out to be a window to the intriguing works of art for which Chagall is known.

(I'm joining in the fun with Turn The Page Tuesday today. Check it out!)

Watch This! : The September Issue

2011-01-27T10:15:00.000-08:00

The September Issue, to me, is a fascinating documentary. Having been a longtime devotee of Vogue magazine (in a previous life, before the kids came along, anyway) and an eager awaiter each year of the telephone book-sized September issue, this movie was just the perfect sneak peek into how it all comes together.

If you have seen (or, even better, read) The Devil Wears Prada, you really need to watch The September Issue as a counterpoint. I think what I enjoyed most was the prominent place Grace Coddington had in the film. I have always admired her work in Vogue--she is brilliant.

Maybe it is time to renew my subscription.

Random Thoughts

2011-01-25T11:14:00.000-08:00

Corey posted some Random Thoughts on her lovely blog yesterday, and I am inspired to make up my own list today.

When did I stop eating breakfast?
Some days, my kids are Max & Ruby.
I can't wait to wear my new sweater coat to the movies with friends this week.
I wish winter would come back for a while.
Coffee.
I hope my kids will still want to cuddle with me when they are big and grown.
I haven't been able to find one of Andrew's shoes for a few weeks now.
It is probably okay if cooking is something I end up never really enjoying.
I have a wonderful, wonderful hubby.

What are a few of your random thoughts today?

Watch This! : Coco Before Chanel

2011-01-20T14:42:00.000-08:00

Welcome to this winter's film series here at sara-sundries, Watch This!

Tune in each Thursday for the next eight weeks to see more of my eclectic, somewhat quirky movie picks for you to enjoy on DVD, Blu-Ray, On Demand, Netflix streaming....however you do it these days. But rest assured you won't need to leave the comfort of your own home (which is nice in the wintertime) because I doubt any of these flix will still be showing in theaters.

Today's offering, Coco Before Chanel.

When Valerie was born, and fashion mags were banned from our home, I had been subscribing to Vogue for over twenty years. Not only subscribing, but reading it cover to cover. I used to be totally up on what was going on in the world of fashion (well, according to Anna Wintour, most recently, but more on that next week...). I used to dream of someday buying one piece of haute couture.

Moving on. Coco Chanel was an amazing visionary. She took what was expected in women's clothing and completely turned it on it's ear. If it weren't for her, we might still be wearing corsets. (Maybe that wouldn't be so bad for a mama who finds it nearly impossible to find time for exercise.)

My one beef with the movie is that the lovely and super-talented Audrey Tautou (you've seen Amelie, haven't you??--which is perfect for Valentine's Day, by the way), who plays Chanel, seems to have the same sour expression for the entire film. But maybe that is what Coco was like. You'll see. (And I'll have to read C.C.'s biography to really know.)

P.S. You can see more of my movie suggestions in my "Saturday on DVD" (the title for last winter's series) and "movies" sections (see sidebar at right).

P.P.S. Let me know how you liked the movie by leaving a comment. And please let me in on your fave films!

I've Fallen (Behind) and I Can't Get (Caught) Up

2011-01-18T13:13:00.000-08:00

The title for this post came to me over the weekend. And I couldn't resist. Do you remember this unfortunate TV commercial? Oh my.

I've been going a little crazy in the house lately. Too much stuff to get done. More stuff than I can possibly get done in any reasonable amount of time, anytime soon. Sometimes, I just don't want to be home.

So Andrew and I go fun places together in the mornings, instead. Today, I pushed him on his trike (the kind with the pushbar, so I can keep him on the trail!) for an hour and a half--in the 70+ degree weather. (Winter, are you coming back?)

But then when we got back home, it was the same domestic disaster. Where's my Life Call??

(Artwork is Valerie's from preschool.)

There Was Some Sewing, Too

2011-01-13T10:37:00.000-08:00

How could I have forgotten I spent the two days before Christmas Eve sewing? Valerie asked me to make her a red dress to wear on Christmas and I just couldn't say no.

She told me exactly what she wanted. A "vest-dress" with a zipper down the front, rick-rack trim, and gold buttons. So, that's what she got!

Then, I had to make a little something for Andrew, too, right? He got this cute little vest. I put velcro under the buttons so he could fasten it himself.

Valerie put her dress on first thing Christmas morning, before even opening presents. Andrew put his vest on and promptly took it off again a couple of times that day.

Totally worth it!

Blowing Off the Grocery Shopping, No. 2

2011-01-11T12:43:00.000-08:00

So, it wasn't really just the second time I have blown off the grocery shopping. It does happen occasionally.

Nothing personal, Joe. I just knew, yesterday morning, that it wasn't going to happen. I did go through the motions, but after getting back on the highway, Starbucks mocha steaming in the cup holder, I just couldn't take the off-ramp for the grocery store. I took the next one instead. For the scenic drive.

Sure, I beat myself up about it all the way. I felt a mixture of relief and guilt. Mostly guilt. There was frustration, too. Is this what my life is all about these days? Laundry, dishes, grocery shopping? Yes and no.

I drove to one of Andrew's favorite historical sights and listened to him excitedly babble on and on, asking me question after question, as only a nearly-three-year-old can. My spirits lifted.

Then I drove us by the house my grandparents lived in when my father was born, then the old building with the basement grocery store where my grandma used to shop. I wonder if she had days when she just didn't make it there. I wonder if she ever just went for a walk with her little bundle cuddled close to her, instead. (Lucky for me, I can ask her.)

With my spirits lifted even more, I realized my life is indeed about all the minutiae of daily life taking care of little ones, but it is also about the flexibility to change the plan every once in a while.

And when I am ninety-seven, like Grandma, I doubt I will look back and regret blowing off the grocery shopping.

(Painting is by Andrew.)

Dolly Garland

2011-01-06T17:26:00.000-08:00

I did manage (with Valerie's help) one craft project over the holidays. This cute little dolly garland was made with ornaments purchased at Cost Plus World Market last year (after Christmas therefore, on sale). I had bought a few of them, then got this crazy idea and went back for the rest, sixteen in all. (Though, I must give credit to my friend E.'s mom, who made one similar, and inspired me.)

All we did was tie the hands together with red yarn, and voila! The wooden heads are a bit heavy, so they tend to lean forward or back, but that's okay. It was fun, easy, and took all of about ten minutes which is the total time I was able to steal away for crafting.

(I love after-Christmas sales on decorations, by the way. This year I got four more of the red bead garlands above for seventy-five cents each at Target. Fun stuff.)

Book o' the Month: Together Alone

2011-01-04T10:39:00.000-08:00

Together Alone: The Story of the Finn Brothers, by Jeff Apter, was on my Christmas wish list--thanks, Hubby!

I am a bit of a Neil Finn fan, so I was curious about the lives of the two incredibly talented New Zealand brothers (Tim and Neil). I learned a lot about their careers in music, yet, as must be done with the reading of any biography, I took it all with a grain of salt.

I find that as I get older, biographies appeal to me more and more. I am interested in how people have lived their lives, and interested in relating to "famous" people as just people, like myself.

With a grain of salt, of course.

(I'm joining up with Adrienne's Turn The Page...Tuesday today over at Some of a Kind--check it out!)

Holiday Books: Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening

2010-12-30T17:23:00.000-08:00

Here is the last in this month's Holiday Books series here at sara-sundries. Another very peaceful, delicately illustrated book. The text is the wonderful poem by Robert Frost, Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening, with drawings by Susan Jeffers.

Whether you spend your New Year's Eve quietly or in raucous celebration, I wish you a Happy New Year with peace and joy for you and yours in 2011.

Cheers!

Holiday Books: The Twelve Days of Christmas

2010-12-28T09:47:00.000-08:00

Today is actually the fourth day of Christmas. The Twelve Days of Christmas are the days in between Christmas and Epiphany on January sixth, also known at Christmastide. I didn't know that until just a couple of weeks ago!

Here are two lovely books, one with illustrations by Jan Brett, the other by Joanna Isles. With their help, now we can sing the song at just the right time.

*All this month at sara-sundries, I'll be highlighting beloved holiday books. I'd love to hear from you about your favorites!

Holiday Books: The Night Before Christmas

2010-12-23T14:14:00.000-08:00

The Night Before Christmas, the classic by Clement Moore (originally entitled A Visit From St. Nicholas), is one you just can't miss at Christmastime. The books above are illustrated by John Steven Gurney and Jan Brett. Both are lovely in their own way. There are so many beautifully illustrated versions of this wonderful poem. Do you have any in your collection?

Here's wishing you a merry little Christmas!

*All this month at sara-sundries, I'll be highlighting beloved holiday books. I'd love to hear from you about your favorites!

Holiday Books: December's Travels

2010-12-21T10:15:00.000-08:00

December's Travels by Mischa Damjan is perfect for this Winter Solstice day. I found this book at a used book store my first year of teaching. I was drawn to the intriguing illustrations by Dusan Kallay.

The story is just right for this time of year. December, feeling sad and restless as his month is about to end, is invited by the North Wind to visit three other months--March, June, and October--in their time.

This is simply a very, very beautiful book.

*All this month at sara-sundries, I'll be highlighting beloved holiday books. I'd love to hear from you about your favorites!

Book o' the Month: The Autobiography of Santa Claus

2010-12-16T11:52:00.000-08:00

The Autobiography of Santa Claus as told to Jeff Guinn is not a children's book, per se, but you could read it aloud. I was caught off guard by the fancifulness of this book--part history, part pure frivolity.

Until about a third of the way in, I had to really work at suspending my belief (ironically) to get into the storyline. But then, I began to enjoy it and wondered which character/historical figure would present him/herself next! Talk about the ultimate conspiracy theory. But in a good way.

*All this month at sara-sundries, I'll be highlighting beloved holiday books. I'd love to hear from you about your favorites!

Holiday Books: Christmas Tapestry

2010-12-14T13:08:00.000-08:00

Patricia Polacco is one of my very favorite children's book author/illustrators. Her stories are heart-warming, her illustrations are exquisite.

Like many of her books, I cannot get through Christmas Tapestry without getting seriously choked up. Actually, there are a few passages with references to the Holocaust I simply cannot read to my kids right now--so preview the book before reading it to someone say, under ten years old or so.

This book is based on a true story, with one of the happiest endings you could ever hope for. I'm getting all teary-eyed just writing about it.

*All this month at sara-sundries, I'll be highlighting beloved holiday books. I'd love to hear from you about your favorites!

Holiday Books: Clifford

2010-12-09T09:30:00.000-08:00

Kids love Clifford the Big Red Dog. There is just something so enchanting about having a pet as big as a semi truck. And then to imagine he was once a tiny little puppy. Anything is possible.

My kids enjoy these two books, Clifford's First Christmas and Clifford's Christmas by Norman Bridwell. They are short, silly, and cute, with a wink and a nod to the adult reading them aloud.

*All this month at sara-sundries, I'll be highlighting beloved holiday books. I'd love to hear from you about your favorites!

Holiday Books: How the Grinch Stole Christmas!

2010-12-08T13:30:00.000-08:00

You've seen the movie (and I don't mean that 2000 abomination), but have you ever read the book? There are some differences in the illustrations, but the message is the same. The Grinch's character transformation is as powerful as Scrooge's, in my opinion. And I always get choked up reading, "It started in slow. Then it started to grow..." describing the singing Whos.

This year, treat yourself--and your kids--to the book version of How the Grinch Stole Christmas!

*All this month at sara-sundries, I'll be highlighting beloved holiday books. I'd love to hear from you about your favorites!

Holiday Books: Winter's Tale

2010-12-02T12:19:00.000-08:00

All this month at sara-sundries, I'll be highlighting beloved holiday books.

The first is Winter's Tale by Robert Sabuda. More than a book, this is a work of art. It's a pop-up, lift-the-flap combined. And it is so lovely. Each turn of the page introduces the reader to a new forest animal in winter.

Reading, or experiencing this book gives a wonderful calm and quiet feeling.

Visit this site for more delightful creations by this artist.

*I'd love to hear from you about your favorite holiday books!

Making a List

2010-11-30T11:48:00.000-08:00

It's that time of year again. Time to make my to do list of things I'd like to get done in the next twenty-five days. Otherwise known as Christmas Panic.

I make a list every year to help myself feel a little more control over the situation that is a Woefully Untidy House and Not Nearly Enough Time. The actual writing of the list feels pretty good. Crossing things off the list feels even better.

I never have succeeded at crossing every item off the list. Last year, I found the list from the previous year under a pile of sundries on my dresser (which I was clearing off because it was on the list). I found that amusing. Guess what is on the list again this year. Maybe I'll find two lists under the pile. A compilation of sorts.

I am making progress on my other list, however. The gift list. The Fun List. Alas, no handmade presents will be given this year but, oh well. Everything is selected with thoughtful care.

Whatever I accomplish (or not) in the next few weeks, my motto will be "remain calm".

And I'll try not to self-medicate too much with these little yummies.

(Image is Microsoft clip art.)

Over the River and Through the Woods

2010-11-25T05:00:00.000-08:00

Wherever you are today, whomever you are with, I hope your arms are full, and your heart is warm.

Happy Thanksgiving and thank you for stopping by to read my little blog.

(I just adore this song!)

Little Hat

2010-11-23T05:00:00.000-08:00

Here is a cute little hat I crocheted for a little baby-to-be. I asked both of my babies to model it. My, how they've grown.

Andrew

Valerie

Reminds me of how my grandmother used to say, "Bless your pointed little head."

Nice Day

2010-11-18T16:00:00.000-08:00

Here are ten things making today a nice day....

cafe mocha with whipped cream
spending the morning at a special place with Andrew
picking Valerie up early from school (minimum day)
sharing a chocolate chip brownie with the kids
finding a darling $118.00 sweater at Anthropologie on sale for $29.99
today's high was 58 degrees F
first afternoon heater use of the season
the November/December issue of Victoria magazine
Trader Joe's Chicken Pot Pies for dinner (yummy and easy)
looking forward to Friday night out

What's making your day nice?

Thank You, Girls

2010-11-16T11:53:00.000-08:00

My dear girls. You were first called to duty over six and a half years ago. I am sorry the first two weeks of your first assignment involved a hospital-grade pump, but you performed impeccably. I vowed never to use it again after we brought Valerie home. And I didn't.

You put in nearly two and a half very good years, then got a well deserved break before Andrew was born. You were called to duty for the second time within an hour of his birth. We hadn't revisited the procedures at all, but no matter. He was already an expert.

Now, a little over two and a half years later, your service is complete. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I could not have done it without you. You nursed and nurtured the kids with such reliability, such care.

And I know that (without a bit of assistance) you will never be the same again.

Note: Image courtesy of VintageHolidayCrafts.com.

Thank a Vet

2010-11-11T13:53:00.000-08:00

Every November 11th, I call up my dad. I thank him for serving as an Army officer in the Vietnam War. He is always happy to hear it. It never gets old.

Have you thanked a vet today?

The Best Days of Your Life

2010-11-09T12:27:00.000-08:00

I've been told, in the past month, by two different sources, that these are the best days of my life. Now, while my kids are little. It has resonated with me so, that it has become a mantra for me on these days which, lately have been a bit, shall we say, trying.

"It's tough bein' a kid," my grandma always says. Especially, when you're two, like Andrew. And a challenging time to be a parent, I have been reminded.

But These Are Days to remember (and I've been singing it since Valerie was born). When Valerie leaves "MAMA" in magnetic letters on the fridge for me to find. When she spends all morning designing and sewing (!) a felt heart and bird, then giving me her delightful creations (which, upon the wall, serve to remind me of both her love and that one day she will fly). When Andrew must spend at least ten minutes cuddling in the morning before he is ready to get up. When he will give me kisses just for the asking.

Really, what is better than having my little ones near me? Sometimes I wish I could freeze them, just as they are right now. Tom is more pragmatic, more holistic, reminding me how wonderful it is to watch them grow, to see who they become.

But me? Now I know why my grandma always said she wanted to put a brick on my head--to keep me little. I could use a couple of bricks.

The Most Creative Job In the World

2010-11-04T12:40:00.000-07:00

It involves

taste,
fashion,
decorating,
recreation,
education,
transportation,
psychology,
romance,
cuisine,
designing,
literature,
medicine,
handicraft,
art,
horticulture,
economics,
government,
community relations,
pediatrics,
geriatrics,
entertainment,
maintenance,
purchasing,
direct mail,
law,
accounting,
religion,
energy
and management.
Anyone who can
handle all those
has to be somebody
special.
She is.
She's a homemaker.

(This was printed as a one page ad in The Wall Street Journal by United Technologies Corporation in 1986.)

Book o' the Month: Water for Elephants

2010-11-02T11:54:00.000-07:00

Today I'm happy to be taking part in Turn the Page ... Tuesday over at Some of a Kind.

I'm also happy to tell you about a book I really enjoyed, Water for Elephants, by Sara Gruen. I wasn't sure I wanted to read a book about the circus. But my sister told me I would like it, and she liked the ending. Then I remembered that my great-grandfather--true story--had run away with the circus for a while as a young man. So, I decided to give it a go.

Water for Elephants takes place in 1930. A young man, having just suffered some tragic news, leaves university and jumps on a train. Turns out to be a circus train. The story is told as the protagonist sits in a nursing home recalling his own experiences as a big top is set up nearby. It is an intriguing story of love, loss, kindness, and cruelty. I very much enjoyed the main character as both a young and old man.

This is the kind of novel that, had I nothing else to do, I would probably have read through in one day. And I was thinking, after I finished reading, that it could make a good movie. I guess I'm not the only one--here's the link.

Claws

2010-10-28T12:39:00.000-07:00

My favorite thing about Halloween is sewing the costumes. Valerie is going as a dragon this year, so there was a top/wings to construct as well as these glove/claws. I am loving how everything has come together, especially the claws.

I got two pairs of gloves (a set) at Target for $1.50. The rectangle of white felt cost 29 cents. So, a total bargain. I simply cut out ten felt claws (two at a time) and sewed them on to the fingertips of the grown-up-sized gloves with a zigzag stitch. So, totally easy. Quick, too.

And way fun.

Book(s) o' the Month(s): Mr. Popper's Penguins & Images of America

2010-10-26T13:08:00.000-07:00

All of September, Tom and I took turns reading Mr. Popper's Penguins (by Richard and Florence Atwater) to Valerie and Andrew before bed. This charming chapter book (with a number of wonderful vintage illustrations) was a Newbury Honor Book in 1939. It is utterly delightful, just right for when you want something engaging for young children (without violence, or other undesirable elements). The fanciful ending is a bit far-fetched, I think, even for 1938 (when first published), but does not detract from this darling story.

Images of America is a series of books published by Arcadia Publishing. If you browse through this list you might just find your town. You can probably pick up a copy at your local library, like I did, then immerse yourself in local history. I read mine in about a day (I live in a very small community), but found it fascinating. Each chapter contains a few paragraphs, followed by several pages of old photos with descriptive captions. Now, as I drive along the valley road, I can pick out a number of significant landmarks. Even though I am a relatively new member of the community, knowing something about it's past gives me a deeper sense of understanding about this place where I live.